What a Bad Day

After a long long raya break, suppose today i got to go back to work. Something happen, my car broke down "battery flat". What a coincidence happen on today 28th September 2009. haha! wht it wasn't happen during the past last week but on the Monday morning when i am fully prepare readily to work.

Anyway, i am thankful that it was not happen on half way or at the middle of the road, else i am certainly panic. Thank god! I know god really watching me. :)

In the evening, i went for a 30 minutes jogging at the garden nearby my house, its so great, the sweat coming out, huh... I should be more hardworking to do more exercise often.

Women In The Sun

I love this stupendous drama " Women in the sun". These include secret births, double love triangles and revenge.

The crux of this series is the two lead female characters ? Do-young and Sa-wol, the star-crossed sisters.

These two characters betray the Shakespearean adage, “Frailty, thy name is woman.”

They are both strong-willed go-getters who know what they want. And they are ready to do anything to make their dreams to come true.

Do-young is a successful, sought-after TV personality, hosting a popular TV talk show called “The Wonder Woman Show” that reunites lost relatives or friends.

Do-young herself is a wonder woman figure, always voted as the No. 1 role model for young women.

However, beneath her tough shell, she bears the scars from an unfortunate childhood in an orphanage.

That was before a childless well-to-do couple decided to adopt her.

Little Do-young tries her best to please her adoptive mother, but her efforts are derailed when her adoptive parents give birth to a daughter named Ji-young.

Do-young later abandons her little sister in the crowded Seoul Station and comes back home alone, never to see her sister again, or not.

Years later, Do-young has grown into this successful woman, armed with a hotshot boyfriend, but she feels a sense of crisis, as Sa-wol, a self-made personal shopper of luxury items at a department store, enters her life.

Do-young suspects that Sa-wol may be her sister and she soon discovers that her gut feeling is right.

Despite Do-young’s efforts to cover this up, Sa-wol has discovered the truth behind her birth, and slowly begins to take revenge against Do-young.

In the meantime, there is a double love triangle, as Do-young’s boyfriend, Jun-se, happens to be the one whom Sa-wol secretly admires.

At the same time, Dong-woo, who used to fancy Sa-wol from the same orphanage, falls in love with Do -young.

The true weapon of this series is that it knows how to vary its cliches.

Instead of making viewers savor Sa-wol’s revenge against Do-young, this series also focuses on Do-young’s anxiety.

Through Do-young’s soliloquies on how badly she wanted to be loved by her adoptive parents, viewers find themselves sympathizing with the character.

So the charm of this drama is that it draws no clear line in the sand between good and evil.

It’s not a simple story of revenge.

Rather, it highlights and creates an emotional connection with the scars of individuals, as it gives a chance for Do-young to defend herself.

The world is an unfair place, and Do-young was just not lucky enough to be born with a silver spoon in her mouth.

It does not feel right to put all the blame on Do-young, and this blurred border between good and evil is the drama’s virtue.

Summary:-

The highest human quality is portrayed successfully in this drama which is the ability to forgive.

The love that we get is not important. It’s the love that we gave, give and will give to the people that we love that matters most.

THIS DRAMA IS JUST BRILLIANT AND I LOVE IT!

TAURUS TIME

That's right, people--as of April 20, the reign of Taurus officially commenced. So if you happen to be well acquainted with someone whose birthday falls between the 20th of April and May-- (yours truly on May 8)--consider yourself blessed! Seriously!

OK, so I'm a "superstitious" and consult horoscopes for guidance, I do believe that people born within certain timeframes do exhibit certain traits that are unique to their 'sign'. God knows that I'm not speaking on behalf of His creation of the human race, but I just find it fascinating the way many people's dispositions are often 'to blame' on their dates of birth.

Me? I am such a Taurus according to sites that offer zodiac profiles. I don't agree with 100% of what is said, but most of it is pretty close. For example:

One site says that
Taurean people tend to be slow, methodical, practical and reserved. They are also stolid, tenacious and determined. Possessing tremendous willpower and self-discipline, they are inclined to stick to tried and traditional methods. Roots are important to the Taurean. A sense of permanence, a feeling of security is essential. Generally an easygoing person, slow to anger, but once roused is known for a ferocious temper. Very difficult to deal with when angry. Usually set off by jealousy due to a possessive nature.

They may possess a good singing voice as music may be said to be a Taurean art. Loyalty is important to a Taurus, and a true friend of a Taurean will speak well of their great generosity. Taureans are warm, loving, gentle and charming most of the time. Motivated by self preservation, the Taurean is not a risk taker and weighs every decision carefully, in a slow and methodical manner. To more impulsive people, Taurus is a bore. Opinionated, stubborn, once a

Taurean makes a decision, it is written in stone.

Another posits that
The Taurus motto might be "Take care of the senses and everything else will takecare of itself." It may be that your attraction to material things is less about the objects themselves than it is about the pleasure they bring to your senses. Comfortable living and working space is important to Taurus, along with nice linens, clothing, food and music. And, as one of the most practical signs, Taureans' outlook on life is usually quite sensible. Greatest Strength: Your sensible outlook on life; Possible Weakness: Accepting less than you can achieve

And when it comes to matters of the heart,
True and steady Taurus can appear a bit perfunctory on the outside, practical in that Earth Sign sort of way. This, however, is only half the story. Deep inside is a smoldering lover waiting for the right cues. The Bull wants and needs to be safe and pampered, but will flourish if a lover can convince them to take a risk. When they do, watch out! The Bull can also be very focused in affairs of the heart, the risk being that possessiveness may step in. Consequently, monogamy with a certain degree of autonomy is the best balance for the Bull. Those born under this sign believe that love and sex go hand-in-hand, in that order, and that's that.

So yeah... we are ALL that, stubbornness and all! I mean, for better or worse, what would the world be without: Adolph Hitler (April 20), Queen Elizabeth II (April 21), Jack Nicholson (April 22), Al Pacino (April 25), Saddam Hussein (April 20), Willie Nelson (April 30), David Beckham (May 2), Dwayne "The Rock" Johnson (May 2), James Brown (May 3), Audrey Hepburn (May 4), Karl Marx (May 5), Sigmund Freud (May 6), Tony Blair (May 6), Eva Peron (May 7), Harry S. Truman (May 8), Bono (May 10), Min. Louis Farrakhan (May 11), Dennis Rodman (May 13), Stevie Wonder (May 13), George Lucas (May 14), Janet Jackson (May 16), Pierce Brosnan (May 16), Liberace (May 16), Ayatollah Khomeini (May 17), Malcolm X (May 19), Ho Chi Minh (May 19), Busta Rhymes (May 20), Cher (May 20) ?

In short, the warm-hearted Taurus is equipped to listen to someone's problem and then give them the advice they need. They are patient and very persistent in arriving at their goal in life. In fact, they are so stubborn that once they've made up their mind about something, nothing short of a nuclear bomb can change it. With friends and mates, they tend to be jealous and possessive. However, Taurus will lavish emotional and financial attention on friends and loved ones to a fault.

金牛座 4/21 - 5/21

金牛座出生日期：4月21日-5月21日
关键词：财产
象征：公牛
主管星：金星
掌管宫位：第二宫
四象性：土
阴阳性：阴性
三方官：固定
掌管身体：颈项和喉咙
颜色：粉红色
珠宝：翡翠、玉
金属：木
幸运号码：6
最大特征：拥有
金句：有钱我最大！

性格特色：稳定、温顺、懒散人生乐事：奢华、美貌、朱古力人生痛苦：低质素、赶时间

有缘分的星座：处女座、摩羯座

没缘分的星座：狮子座、水瓶座

金牛座个性

金星是金牛座的守护星，所以金牛座是保守型的星座，他不喜欢变动，安稳是他的生活态度。金牛座的人不会急躁冲动，只有忍耐，“吃得苦中苦，方为人上人”，正是他们的写照，而且还是非常顽固，一旦决定了的事他不喜欢去改变。
　　由于缺乏安全感，失业是金牛座最怕面对的问题，代表他们的生活失去重心；男的金牛座有潜在的大男人主义，在家中他们不多发言，但对尊严他们很重视，而女的金牛座除了实际之外，会喜爱打扮自己，因为金牛座的守护神就是爱与美的化身（维纳斯）。
　　他们通常都是慢热的，要花一段时间才会适应一份感情、一份工作、一个环境，但适应了之后，他们甚少会改变，除非迫不得己。而且金牛座的人有艺术细胞，具有高度欣赏任何艺术的品味和能力。

金牛座爱情
　　在你未遇到经济问题前，你都是贪图外表的一族，你多数的情人都不会是你先喜欢的，因为你对喜欢的人只会暗恋。你一生大大小小暗恋的次数简直是天文数字，然而当对方走近你又会害羞起来，所以你的恋爱大多都是从朋友关系建立起来的。而你考虑到对方是否适合自己时，你最先看的：1.)钱，2.)外貌。反应迟钝的你活像一个聋子，示爱时又吞吞吐吐，似是个聋哑人士的你很容易令人对你的第一印象是高傲，谁不知你只是来不设反应…真可悲…你就像是一头牛，很难跟你开始发展爱情，又聋又哑的你还要是个路痴，所以要当你的情人，必先要有超人的耐性，不断重复同一句说话的沟通方法更要时常安抚你小家子的脾气。但，一旦真的开始了恋爱，你却是蛮能信任的情人。
　　金牛座爱情面包的抉择
　　金牛座的你并不像这个星座的名称“金牛”一样，只重视金钱，不重视爱情。
　　金牛座的守护星是金星，金星掌管美、浪漫与和谐，而金牛座是土向星座之一，本质上是重视实际的星座。在这两种特质的影响之下，金牛座的你并不像这个星座的名称“金牛”一样，只重视金钱，不重视爱情。
　　还记得一些民初军阀戏吧？女主角常常周旋在两种不同类型的男主角之中。一个是军阀子弟，有钱有势；一个是有为的爱国青年，一腔热情却穷困潦倒。剧中的女主角当然是选择爱国青年，选择爱情。
　　如果剧中的女主角是金牛座，这两个男主角都会被三振出局，这种推论你一定深表认同。
　　所以，爱情与面包的抉择对你来说，并不是一道单选题，而是不同比例的复选题。
　　很多人都会觉得，金牛座不是为恋爱而恋爱，而是为结婚而恋爱。这样的心态让金牛座保有一种谨慎而平衡的心情，在爱的路上显得稳扎稳打。
　　选择对象时也是如此，我想，你列入考虑范围的候选人，都是具有不错的浪漫与实际的特质。如果你剔除了不符条件的人选之后，还有不只一个机会，你真是幸运的人。就凭你的感觉挑选吧，我相信你的选择。

金牛座的优缺点
　　他或她应该有的优点　

耐性十足　　一往情深　有艺术天份　　脚踏实地 　　做事有计划 　　能坚持到底　　择善固执　　追求和平 生活有规律　　值得信赖　　

他或她可能有的缺点　

占有欲太强，善妒 　　顽固的死硬派 　　缺乏协调性，不善于分工合作 　　做事态度过于严肃 　　缺乏幽默感

A love story.....

He met her on a party. She was so outstanding, many guys chasing after her, while he so normal, nobody paid attention to him. At the end of the party, he invited her to have coffee with him, she was surprised, but due to being polite, she promised.

They sat in a nice coffee shop, he was too nervous to say anything, she felt uncomfortable, she thought, please, let me go home.... suddenly he asked the waiter. 'Would you please give me some salt? I'd like to put it in my coffee.' Everybody stared at him, so strange! His face turned red, but still, he put the salt in his coffee and drank it. She asked him curiously; why you have this hobby? He replied: 'when I was a little boy, I was living near the sea, I like playing in the sea, I could feel the taste of the sea, just like the taste of the salty coffee. Now every time I have the salty coffee, I always think of my childhood, think of my hometown, I miss my hometown so much, I miss my parents who are still living there'. While saying that tears filled his eyes. She was deeply touched.. That's his true feeling, from the bottom of his heart. A man who can tell out his homesickness, he must be a man who loves home, cares about home, has responsibility of home. Then she also started to speak, spoke about her faraway hometown, her childhood, her family. That was a really nice talk, also a beautiful beginning of their story. They continued to date. She found that actually he was a man who meets all her demands; he had tolerance, was kind hearted, warm, careful. He was such a good person but she almost missed him! Thanks to his salty coffee!

Then the story was just like every beautiful love story , the princess married to the prince, then they were living the happy life... And, every time she made coffee for him, she put some salt in the coffee, as she knew that's the way he liked it.

After 40 years, he passed away, left her a letter which said: 'My dearest, please forgive me, forgive my whole life lie. This was the only lie I saidto you---the salty coffee. Remember the first time we dated? I was so nervous at that time, actually I wanted some sugar, but I said salt It was hard for me to change so I just went ahead. I never thought that could be the start of our communication! I tried to tell you the truth many times in my life, but I was too afraid to do that, as I have promised not to lie to you for anything.

Now I'm dying, I afraid of nothing so I tell you the truth: I don't like the salty coffee, what a strange bad taste.. But I have had the salty coffee for my whole life! Since I knew you, I never feel sorry for anything I do for you.. Having you with me is my biggest happiness for my whole life. If I can live for the second time, still want to know you and have you for my whole life,even though I have to drink the salty coffee again'.

Her tears made the letter totally wet.Someday, someone asked her: what's the taste of salty coffee?

It's sweet. She replied.

Love is not to forget but to forgive, not to see but to understand, not to hear but to listen, not to let go but to HOLD ON !!!!

Don't ever leave the one you love for the one you like, because the one you like will leave you for the one they love.

Find one, who calls you beautiful instead of hot.

Who calls you back when you hang up on him.

Who will stay awake just to watch you sleep.

Who wants to show you off to the world when you are in your sweats.

Who holds your hand in front of his friends.

Wait for the one who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares about you and how lucky he is to have you.

Wait for the one who turns to his friends and says, '...that's her.'

好久不动气了，但是开始又动气了，赶紧反省检讨一下，把“莫生气”再温习一遍。继续找别人的好处，认自己的不是，生气犹如战争，双方都有伤亡，战争结束后还有一堆垃圾战场要收拾，满目疮(chuāng)痍，真是愚人才生气。

你为什么生气？

别为小事抓狂
你为什么生气？
塞车、买票插队、同事争执、服务生态度恶劣……
生气之前，思考哪些才是真正值得生气的情况，
例如：虐待儿童、人民遭受饥饿之苦、战争……
相较之下?，就可以知道这些事是多不值得生气。
将怒气转向值得生气的事上，
并且想想自己可以为这些情况做什么。

Extraordinary date

Dates like 20.01.2001, 20.02.2002, 20.03.2003, 20.04.2004, 20.05.2005, 20.06.2006, 20.07.2007 and 20.08.2008 have been a historical dates. what you have done on that day? Hhmm i am wondering mine! This year on 20.09.2009, after a whole month of fasting, the Muslim community in Malaysia celebrates ‘Hari Raya' with joyous family gatherings and open houses. Join in the merry-making and taste the delicious traditional Malay favourites such as rendang and ketupat.

SELAMAT HARI RAYA TO ALL MY MUSLIM FRIENDS.

吴淡如的拖鞋理論

吳淡如說：「年輕的時候真的因為買錯東西，交過很多學費但是到了現在，我已經能夠認識自己、了解自己知道什麼東西適合自己，所以在下決定的時候就會很清楚、很確定」吳淡如說：我真的覺得，女人尋找適合的男人就像是尋找一雙適合的鞋子在年輕的時候，女人買的往往是最華麗最能墊高自己高度的鞋子或許是高跟鞋、或許是恨天高即使難穿也沒關係因為妳覺得妳自己可以忍耐

但是，如果有一天妳忍耐到拇指外翻、腳起水泡妳才會發現，鞋子最重要的功能其實是要陪妳走路而已而走路是要往前走的，不是要站在原地的婚姻就像找鞋標準一直在變所以，這時候妳就會去找一雙很舒適的會保護妳的腳的、會陪著妳一起向前走的鞋而不是去增加你的高度，因為妳就是這個樣子吳淡如說：「但是這其中也有一個前提就是妳也不能找太醜的鞋因為如果太醜妳就不會喜歡它」婚姻其實就像每個人在找鞋而已發現，從很年輕的時候到現在找鞋的人格一直慢慢地在改變因為你! 已經慢慢接受自己原本的高度不需要靠鞋子來墊高自己了不過，雖然這個道理聽起來很簡單似乎人人都可以領會但是，吳淡如也坦承要充分參悟其中的道理，其實不是那麼容易

吳淡如以自己為例，和男朋友 Simon鄧其實在民國八十二年就認識，原先只是朋友直到最近這一、兩年兩個人才有比較深入的來往那種感覺就像古代的文藝小說中所說的『過盡千帆皆不是』你（妳）會突然發現好女人（男人）還是在你（妳）的身邊他（她）也許不是最漂亮的鞋，而是一雙很舒服、能走長久的鞋～吳淡如說：「我男朋友對我的所有態度永遠是：『我可以為妳做什麼？』我後來才覺得原來這才是人間最稀罕的一種品質後來才發現像這種從台北載妳到高雄都叫做『順路』的人而且他自己有他自己的工作原則、價值觀、人生觀他不會嫉妒妳的成就，也不會嫉妒妳賺的錢願意對妳的一切樂觀其成對任何妳想做的各種實驗，永遠都不加置諱因為那不關他的事，這是妳自己的選擇老實跟你說，這樣的人還真少

吳淡如的那句話：『過盡千帆皆不是』你（妳）會突然發現好女人（男人）還是在你（妳）的身邊他（她）也許不是最漂亮的鞋，而是一雙很舒服、能走長久的鞋～祝福大家都能找到一雙適合自己 . 很舒服 .能走長久的鞋 .若是鞋子已經穿在腳上.可能不太舒服 .也不太好走 ...不妨多忍讓一下 ? 協調一下 .試著走一段時間經過磨合. 調整.... 穿起來自然會舒服些..如果... 不能舒服些 ...嘿嘿 ....要踢掉 .要換鞋 . 要光腳 ...由你決定囉!

“09.09.09”好日子

今年，２００９年９月９日又成了有情人看中的好日子，为与天下有情人在２００９年 ９月９日这世纪一遇的日子共度最浪漫时刻。

０９. ０９. ０９=天长地久？吉利寓意的日子, 对于新人来说值得纪念. “２００９年９月９日”，这个寓意“爱你久久久”的日子再次掀起了结婚登记的高潮。今年双春兼闰月，很多人谓为“结婚年”，９月９日很多新人眼中，寓意“三九合一、天长地久”，是百年难遇的良辰吉日。

当然这么吉利的日子，可少不了这一对情人，Chin Ling & Wai Ling 的结合哦！身为妹妹的我衷心祝福这对情人“恩恩爱爱，甜甜蜜蜜，天长地久”。