October 15th 2008, my best fren's (SY) last day in Deloitte. I wishes her all the best of luck and I love you & miss you much. :)Tuesday, October 21, 2008
My best Fren last day in Deloitte.
October 15th 2008, my best fren's (SY) last day in Deloitte. I wishes her all the best of luck and I love you & miss you much. :)
ChOp UR HeAD!!!!
If one day, out of sudden your boss come to your front and tell you "YOU make sure you have done your work properly or I will CHOP your HEAD!"
What’s come to your mind at that time you listen it?
I think, for me, my mind will keep visualizing ‘oh my god! My head is going to be chopping it down!’ ‘What should I do?’ ‘How am I supposed to do?’ ‘I will die at such a young age?’ I felt my life is being threatened.
Henry, a well performed staff encountered this, he felt his life is being threatened; it turns to worst when he neither sleep well nor eat well because the words keep appearing it on his mind. His mind, his emotion, his soul keep distracting HIM and his health start deteriorating and it affects his daily performance of work.
He has no choice, He has to choose to quit from what he is doing and seek medication and psychotherapy and hopefully it does HELP!
What you learn from the above facts?
Moral of the Story:-
Whether the boss’s words are as mere jokes or it’s actually a serious instruction to you.
I think this is a very irresponsible and rude manner!
The emotional language used could be seen as terrorists in a manner of speaking!
It’s an insult that cannot be forgive and forget!
We must allow for human error.
It affects ones physically and emotionally!
Being a boss, shouldn’t it be showing the qualities of leadership and to guide through rather than speaking such rough language to your subordinate!!!
If you “the boss” think you are always right; then you are wrong!
The quality of being humanity should be in everyone’s heart.
It’s totally unacceptable and unforgiveable!!
What’s come to your mind at that time you listen it?
I think, for me, my mind will keep visualizing ‘oh my god! My head is going to be chopping it down!’ ‘What should I do?’ ‘How am I supposed to do?’ ‘I will die at such a young age?’ I felt my life is being threatened.
Henry, a well performed staff encountered this, he felt his life is being threatened; it turns to worst when he neither sleep well nor eat well because the words keep appearing it on his mind. His mind, his emotion, his soul keep distracting HIM and his health start deteriorating and it affects his daily performance of work.
He has no choice, He has to choose to quit from what he is doing and seek medication and psychotherapy and hopefully it does HELP!
What you learn from the above facts?
Moral of the Story:-
Whether the boss’s words are as mere jokes or it’s actually a serious instruction to you.
I think this is a very irresponsible and rude manner!
The emotional language used could be seen as terrorists in a manner of speaking!
It’s an insult that cannot be forgive and forget!
We must allow for human error.
It affects ones physically and emotionally!
Being a boss, shouldn’t it be showing the qualities of leadership and to guide through rather than speaking such rough language to your subordinate!!!
If you “the boss” think you are always right; then you are wrong!
The quality of being humanity should be in everyone’s heart.
It’s totally unacceptable and unforgiveable!!
Thursday, October 9, 2008
What a bad luck!!!
Early in the morning i went straight to client's place to pick up document, things tend to be not so smooth. My clock shown at 7.50am and the guard seem to be not so tolerate to me, reason being the staff of the company are to be having their early assembly. Luckily, my client's came out and pass me the document.
After that, i went back to office and worst, NO CAR PARK at 8.25am. with no other choice, i decided to double park infront the shop.
I left office to Inland Revenue, i used to be always follow the RULE, which i will park the car at the parking place, however, today, i change my mind to just park at the yellow line next the road. Upon i finish the settlement, i saw the traffic officer is just one car infront of me preparing the summons. I thank GOD that i ESCAPE!!! but that doesn't hold long, another summons on my window screen when i left office at 11.15pm. The offence i faced is 'casign unnecessary obstruction on the road" SIGH really unbelievable!!!!
not sure i am actually in a BAD or GOOD luck instead???
After that, i went back to office and worst, NO CAR PARK at 8.25am. with no other choice, i decided to double park infront the shop.
I left office to Inland Revenue, i used to be always follow the RULE, which i will park the car at the parking place, however, today, i change my mind to just park at the yellow line next the road. Upon i finish the settlement, i saw the traffic officer is just one car infront of me preparing the summons. I thank GOD that i ESCAPE!!! but that doesn't hold long, another summons on my window screen when i left office at 11.15pm. The offence i faced is 'casign unnecessary obstruction on the road" SIGH really unbelievable!!!!
not sure i am actually in a BAD or GOOD luck instead???
Wednesday, September 24, 2008
September 24th 2008 (24092008)
I am so sad and down today!!! I really don't expected this to be happen. Recently there are so many things happen around the office, keep hearing who and who is resigning.
Today during the training, the director also our trainer for the day, asking us "why so many people resign, why?" Some of us have respone by because of better offer, better salary offered and etc.
What do you think? Some might be unhappy on the management of the firm. No deny that you can't do anything rather than accept it.
Why???????
Today during the training, the director also our trainer for the day, asking us "why so many people resign, why?" Some of us have respone by because of better offer, better salary offered and etc.
What do you think? Some might be unhappy on the management of the firm. No deny that you can't do anything rather than accept it.
Why???????
Saturday, September 13, 2008
MONEY NOT ENOUGH II
Finally, i watch the movie "Money NOT enough II". I would have said this is an extremely best life + touching story i have ever watched.The movie really points out the daily issues and concerns we face. Though money is important, but i think this show emphasize a lot on filiety to parents in this current age and it brought a tear to my eye. This made me realise that while material gain is important, family values should not be denied in the process. It is sad to see how our current society has changed our mindset.
Friday, September 12, 2008
September 11th 2008
Today marks the 7th anniversary since the September 11 attacks (often referred to as 9/11) were a series of coordinated suicide attacks by al-Qaeda upon the United States on September 11, 2001.
As well as today, my dad's birthday... happy birthday 62th DAD!!! wish dad always healthy and healthy.
As well as today, my dad's birthday... happy birthday 62th DAD!!! wish dad always healthy and healthy.
Thursday, April 3, 2008
April
Month of April.......
April 1st - Everyone will know that this is a day where everyone to fool around. Yes u' right its April Fool day.
- Leslie Cheung passed away on April 1, 2003
April 4th - Its my 3 years anniversary working in Deloitte.
April 1st - Everyone will know that this is a day where everyone to fool around. Yes u' right its April Fool day.
- Leslie Cheung passed away on April 1, 2003
April 4th - Its my 3 years anniversary working in Deloitte.
Saturday, March 29, 2008
Changes - Part II
I dislike some people who said things indirectly behind you. It sometimes do mean something. you might say that i am too sensitive on that, but if you are at my situation, you wouldnt have to say so.
I was recently installed the google talk in my office notebook. The purpose for installing it is not for chatting purpose during office hour. Then one day, this person who used to be my colleague cum friend when i first join the firm who now turn to be my group leader said to me 'make sure you don't chat it so openly, otherwise if notice by the other group members it will be not so appropriate'
i was at first silent then after some while, i think back about what she said to me. i feel so unreasonable. Before she was promoted to her current position, she also do it so openly, have anyone or me said that to her like this. in turn, she said that to me! Am i not working during office hour or worst just chatting there or online? i feel really terrible how could she said that at the first place.
its just not the first time happen this. i cant bear my tears sometimes when i am currently working under her. i feel sometimes she is so unreasonable about the way she spoke.
I was recently installed the google talk in my office notebook. The purpose for installing it is not for chatting purpose during office hour. Then one day, this person who used to be my colleague cum friend when i first join the firm who now turn to be my group leader said to me 'make sure you don't chat it so openly, otherwise if notice by the other group members it will be not so appropriate'
i was at first silent then after some while, i think back about what she said to me. i feel so unreasonable. Before she was promoted to her current position, she also do it so openly, have anyone or me said that to her like this. in turn, she said that to me! Am i not working during office hour or worst just chatting there or online? i feel really terrible how could she said that at the first place.
its just not the first time happen this. i cant bear my tears sometimes when i am currently working under her. i feel sometimes she is so unreasonable about the way she spoke.
Changes
Time flies! Today is 26th March 2008. The 12th General Election has over on 8th March 2008, yet the newspaper or even at streets, cofee shop, you can still get to listen on the politics chaotic.
so many things happen in just a month. i have been going through all these with ups and downs. i am bless, thank god for hav ing all great friends and my mother around me when i need them. its really not easy to cope in nowadys so call competitive market and working under pressure.
My ex-manager told me 'changes is part of our lives, so why not take it easy'.
so many things happen in just a month. i have been going through all these with ups and downs. i am bless, thank god for hav ing all great friends and my mother around me when i need them. its really not easy to cope in nowadys so call competitive market and working under pressure.
My ex-manager told me 'changes is part of our lives, so why not take it easy'.
Tuesday, February 26, 2008
One month anniversary
Its one month past already but it looks like just happen yesterday. Time flies...
Sunday, February 24, 2008
测试你为何找不到男友
我觉得满准呐!不信，那就试试看，再告诉我如何吧 （笑）。
测试开始，请计算10条测试题的总分，根据总分对照结果。
1、你平常是否喜欢看手机杂志？
有啊，我都会买，超喜欢看的：→1分
朋友如果有买就借来翻翻：→3分
很少吧，平常很少看这种书籍：→5分
2、请问你目前有做发型设计吗？
有耶，我有到专店去设计过：→1分
没有，顶多只是染染头发而已：→3分
没有，整理整齐好看就可以了：→5分
3、你平常是否有吃一些小零嘴的习惯？
有耶，我嘴巴常常动不停吃零嘴：→1分
不多，有在吃不过也担心身材：→3分
很少，我不怎么喜欢吃零嘴：→5分
4、你觉得自己是不是一个很爱花钱的女人？
是耶，常常禁不住欲望就拼命花：→1分
偶尔，有时会忽然抓狂乱花：→3分
应该不会，我是喜欢存钱的女人：→5分
5、学生时代你是否有打工的经验？
有，我多半是到便利商店或加油站较多：→1分
没有，或是应征公司文书之类选这：→3分
有，我会找家教或补习班：→5分
6、如果给你选择，你会当那个故事的女主角？
被王子亲吻的白雪公主：→1分
麻雀变凤凰的灰姑娘：→3分
被王子拯救的睡美人：→5分
7、你房间的布置通常是怎样的情况呢？
放了不少心爱的东西，乱乱可爱的小窝：→1分
比较偏向单一色系的窝：→3分
东西不多，看起来清爽整齐：→5分
8、你平常运动的时间多吗？
蛮多的，有时会去打打球或是健身房：→1分
不多，不过基本上我蛮好动的：→3分
不多，我静态的活动会比较多：→5分
9、如果你突然在路上捡到一笔钱，这时候你会：
当然是拿来自己用，可以买很多东西呢：→1分
虽然心动，不过可能会把他交给警察吧：→3分
不知道该怎么办，丢给亲朋好友想办法：→5分
10、你觉得男朋友的年纪最好是：
最好比我小，我不太喜欢被人管：→1分
最好比我大，因为他们会比较成熟：→3分
大小无所谓，只要爱我就可以了：→5分
测试结果：
10—20分：你的原因出自于“眼光高”
你本身的条件不错，追求你的男人也不少，只是你却总是欲求不满，好还要更好，期待一个条件更好的男人来追求你。虽然追求者也有人能让你心动，只是他们某些缺点也让你无法接受。使得你虽然有异性的青睐，却也只能夜夜独守空闺。
建议：幸福通常只因为要求不高。谁不希望自己的白马王子是完美无瑕？只是这样的要求总有点不切实际。好好用心去经营一段感情，你会发觉爱情的温馨美丽。
21—30分：你的原因出自于“衿持”
你不是没机会，你的条件也很好，坏就坏在你没事喜欢衿持。女人总是喜欢被捧在手掌心上，总是希望心仪的他可以在多付出一点，总是希望他能通过你重重考验。偏偏每个来追求的人总选择半路而废，让爱情的春天迟迟无法降临到你身边。
建议：衿持是女人的专利，可是也要尊重顾虑到男方的感受。太过头可能变成刁难，你的快乐却建立在别人的痛苦。如果苦恋迟迟没有进展，他当然会选择离去。
31—40分：你的原因出自于“做作”
你习惯在异性朋友面前耍酷，总是表现自己冷酷的一面，却忘了展现自己那颗温柔敏锐的心。尤其在喜欢的人面前，你更会让他误会你不喜欢他，甚至讨厌他，虽然你心里极端不想要这样的自己，可是你的所作所为却只会让你们渐行渐远。
建议：喜欢一个人就该让他知道，又要马儿好又要马儿不吃草换来的只是一次又一次的懊悔难过。你只愿意在感情付出五分，就别太渴望对方拿出十分来爱你。
41—50分：你的原因出自于“自卑”
你对自己没什么自信，也不太爱打扮自己，给人的感觉总是很乖内向又文静，也像是躲在角落旁边的丑小鸭。你也很少跟异性相处，尤其跟心仪的他每次讲话都会紧张甚至有点排斥。导致人家就算真的对你有意思，可能也不敢付诸行动。
建议：不要封闭自己的心，也不要错把友情误认为爱情。会错意的结果除了让自己痛苦，也会让对方感到困扰。爱情可以顺其自然，从平凡中慢慢产生与建立的。
测试开始，请计算10条测试题的总分，根据总分对照结果。
1、你平常是否喜欢看手机杂志？
有啊，我都会买，超喜欢看的：→1分
朋友如果有买就借来翻翻：→3分
很少吧，平常很少看这种书籍：→5分
2、请问你目前有做发型设计吗？
有耶，我有到专店去设计过：→1分
没有，顶多只是染染头发而已：→3分
没有，整理整齐好看就可以了：→5分
3、你平常是否有吃一些小零嘴的习惯？
有耶，我嘴巴常常动不停吃零嘴：→1分
不多，有在吃不过也担心身材：→3分
很少，我不怎么喜欢吃零嘴：→5分
4、你觉得自己是不是一个很爱花钱的女人？
是耶，常常禁不住欲望就拼命花：→1分
偶尔，有时会忽然抓狂乱花：→3分
应该不会，我是喜欢存钱的女人：→5分
5、学生时代你是否有打工的经验？
有，我多半是到便利商店或加油站较多：→1分
没有，或是应征公司文书之类选这：→3分
有，我会找家教或补习班：→5分
6、如果给你选择，你会当那个故事的女主角？
被王子亲吻的白雪公主：→1分
麻雀变凤凰的灰姑娘：→3分
被王子拯救的睡美人：→5分
7、你房间的布置通常是怎样的情况呢？
放了不少心爱的东西，乱乱可爱的小窝：→1分
比较偏向单一色系的窝：→3分
东西不多，看起来清爽整齐：→5分
8、你平常运动的时间多吗？
蛮多的，有时会去打打球或是健身房：→1分
不多，不过基本上我蛮好动的：→3分
不多，我静态的活动会比较多：→5分
9、如果你突然在路上捡到一笔钱，这时候你会：
当然是拿来自己用，可以买很多东西呢：→1分
虽然心动，不过可能会把他交给警察吧：→3分
不知道该怎么办，丢给亲朋好友想办法：→5分
10、你觉得男朋友的年纪最好是：
最好比我小，我不太喜欢被人管：→1分
最好比我大，因为他们会比较成熟：→3分
大小无所谓，只要爱我就可以了：→5分
测试结果：
10—20分：你的原因出自于“眼光高”
你本身的条件不错，追求你的男人也不少，只是你却总是欲求不满，好还要更好，期待一个条件更好的男人来追求你。虽然追求者也有人能让你心动，只是他们某些缺点也让你无法接受。使得你虽然有异性的青睐，却也只能夜夜独守空闺。
建议：幸福通常只因为要求不高。谁不希望自己的白马王子是完美无瑕？只是这样的要求总有点不切实际。好好用心去经营一段感情，你会发觉爱情的温馨美丽。
21—30分：你的原因出自于“衿持”
你不是没机会，你的条件也很好，坏就坏在你没事喜欢衿持。女人总是喜欢被捧在手掌心上，总是希望心仪的他可以在多付出一点，总是希望他能通过你重重考验。偏偏每个来追求的人总选择半路而废，让爱情的春天迟迟无法降临到你身边。
建议：衿持是女人的专利，可是也要尊重顾虑到男方的感受。太过头可能变成刁难，你的快乐却建立在别人的痛苦。如果苦恋迟迟没有进展，他当然会选择离去。
31—40分：你的原因出自于“做作”
你习惯在异性朋友面前耍酷，总是表现自己冷酷的一面，却忘了展现自己那颗温柔敏锐的心。尤其在喜欢的人面前，你更会让他误会你不喜欢他，甚至讨厌他，虽然你心里极端不想要这样的自己，可是你的所作所为却只会让你们渐行渐远。
建议：喜欢一个人就该让他知道，又要马儿好又要马儿不吃草换来的只是一次又一次的懊悔难过。你只愿意在感情付出五分，就别太渴望对方拿出十分来爱你。
41—50分：你的原因出自于“自卑”
你对自己没什么自信，也不太爱打扮自己，给人的感觉总是很乖内向又文静，也像是躲在角落旁边的丑小鸭。你也很少跟异性相处，尤其跟心仪的他每次讲话都会紧张甚至有点排斥。导致人家就算真的对你有意思，可能也不敢付诸行动。
建议：不要封闭自己的心，也不要错把友情误认为爱情。会错意的结果除了让自己痛苦，也会让对方感到困扰。爱情可以顺其自然，从平凡中慢慢产生与建立的。
测试你为何找不到女友
测验开始，请计算10条测试题的总分，根据总分对照结果。
1、你平常一个人无聊时，你多半会到哪里逛逛呢？
到闹区人多的地方到处看看顺便看辣妹：1分
点杯果汁就坐下来看书的地方：3分
不知道，可能骑/开车到处乱跑：5分
2、你有没有特别喜欢的电视明星？
有耶，我是某某某的超超超忠实粉丝：1分
有耶，不过我喜欢的对象同时有好几个：3分
有啊，不过多半欣赏他们的才艺或特质比较多：5分
3、(承上题)如果有机会，你会想追你喜欢的那个明星吗？
一定会，我超喜欢和他作男女朋友的：1分
应该会吧，不过要多多了解他的生活圈才是：3分
应该不会，感觉像是两个不同世界的人：5分
4、你对自己在工作上的表现期许通常是如何呢？
靠努力，埋头苦干总有一天会有人看到：1分
靠实力，有能力的人不怕失业没饭吃：3分
靠威力，让自己在一瞬间给公司很深刻的印象：5分
5、跟朋友出去，你的意见特别多吗？
很少耶，我通常都是比较随和的倾听者：1分
会建议，不过还是大家一起讨论吧：3分
我蛮聒噪的，人家也多半都听我的：5分
6、人家认为你讲话都很大声吗？
不会，很多人还觉得我太小声：1分
应该不会，好像很少有人这么说我：3分
会耶，有时候比较high就不自觉提高音量：5分
7、你平常是否喜欢弄一些有得没的小玩意？
没错，虽然很幼稚不过我又没伤害到别人：1分
不多，突然心血来潮才会那么做：3分
很少耶，其实我很少触碰正业以外的东西：5分
8、你会不会有在婚前好好去给他“玩一玩”，婚后再收敛的想法？
还是不敢，男人还是不要太花心的好：1分
用买的不会，如果是很有感觉的对象会看情况：3分
应该可能会吧，只要我婚后对他很专情即可：5分
9、你希望自己的爱情，最好是怎样的发生？
很偶然，很奇妙的巧合，遇到了心仪的他：1分
突然发生，而且对方还是怎么想却想不到的人：3分
出现一个让大家都惊艳的女生，最后被我追到：5分
10、你觉得女朋友的年纪最好是：
最好比我大，因为他们会比较成熟：1分
最好比我小，我有一点大男人主义：3分
大小无所谓，只要看得顺眼就行了：5分
测试结果：
10—20分：你的原因出自于“害羞”
你平常跟女性朋友的互动较少，尤其是在心仪的对象面前，常害怕过度表现造成犯错，反而让对方对你印象不好。和女生说话时，你也常常头脑一片空白，不知道自己究竟在干什么，虽然事后讨厌这样的自己，也做了相当程度的反省，可是相同的事情却只是一再发生。
建议：对方是如何吸引你的呢？是他的某些特点。你又要如何吸引对方？也必须展现你的优点给对方知道才行。不要害怕犯错，因为即使没犯错你还是追不到。
21—30分：你的原因出自于“衿持”
你不是没机会，你的条件也不错，只是你也喜欢学女生那套“孤芳自赏，待价而沽”，希望对方能主动跟你告白。女生通常喜欢跟心仪的人“暗示”，如果对方不理就赶快找寻下一个对象。所以你的过份衿持除了让机会一再从身边错过之外，就是让你在暗夜中独自叹息。
建议：衿持是女人的专利，也别奢望台湾的女生能有多主动。你喜欢被人追，应该更能体会女人偏爱那种被人捧在手心的感觉。反其道而行，恋情也许马上到来。
31—40分：你的原因出自于“肤浅”
你习惯在女性朋友面前作秀，证明自己的能耐。可是有时却常常秀过了头，结果非但未能为你加分，反而让人感觉你过于肤浅。偏偏对方一句言不由衷的“好棒喔”“好厉害喔”却又常常使你会错意，使得你无论在怎样表白，也只是将失恋的个人记录推像人生的高峰而已。
建议：表现自己是正确且正面的，也是让异性注意你的一种方式。可是那表现必须是你擅长的，也是你优点的部分。想要拥有才华洋溢，也得先做做功课才可以。
41—50分：你的原因出自于“固执”
你很固执，对爱情过于坚持己见，习惯以男生的立场为出发点去谈感情，忘了认真去了解女孩子的立场及心理感受。虽然你总觉得为他付出很多，很爱他也对他好，可是对方却不见得就要领情。固执的人很难去想像到别人眼中的自己，也要小心因为情感而成为社会事件的主角。
建议：不要去定义爱情。爱情有时是不需要讲道理的，他是情感的组合体。学会作个倾听者，也让双方共同经营取代单方努力，爱该是舒坦毫无任何强迫的成分。
1、你平常一个人无聊时，你多半会到哪里逛逛呢？
到闹区人多的地方到处看看顺便看辣妹：1分
点杯果汁就坐下来看书的地方：3分
不知道，可能骑/开车到处乱跑：5分
2、你有没有特别喜欢的电视明星？
有耶，我是某某某的超超超忠实粉丝：1分
有耶，不过我喜欢的对象同时有好几个：3分
有啊，不过多半欣赏他们的才艺或特质比较多：5分
3、(承上题)如果有机会，你会想追你喜欢的那个明星吗？
一定会，我超喜欢和他作男女朋友的：1分
应该会吧，不过要多多了解他的生活圈才是：3分
应该不会，感觉像是两个不同世界的人：5分
4、你对自己在工作上的表现期许通常是如何呢？
靠努力，埋头苦干总有一天会有人看到：1分
靠实力，有能力的人不怕失业没饭吃：3分
靠威力，让自己在一瞬间给公司很深刻的印象：5分
5、跟朋友出去，你的意见特别多吗？
很少耶，我通常都是比较随和的倾听者：1分
会建议，不过还是大家一起讨论吧：3分
我蛮聒噪的，人家也多半都听我的：5分
6、人家认为你讲话都很大声吗？
不会，很多人还觉得我太小声：1分
应该不会，好像很少有人这么说我：3分
会耶，有时候比较high就不自觉提高音量：5分
7、你平常是否喜欢弄一些有得没的小玩意？
没错，虽然很幼稚不过我又没伤害到别人：1分
不多，突然心血来潮才会那么做：3分
很少耶，其实我很少触碰正业以外的东西：5分
8、你会不会有在婚前好好去给他“玩一玩”，婚后再收敛的想法？
还是不敢，男人还是不要太花心的好：1分
用买的不会，如果是很有感觉的对象会看情况：3分
应该可能会吧，只要我婚后对他很专情即可：5分
9、你希望自己的爱情，最好是怎样的发生？
很偶然，很奇妙的巧合，遇到了心仪的他：1分
突然发生，而且对方还是怎么想却想不到的人：3分
出现一个让大家都惊艳的女生，最后被我追到：5分
10、你觉得女朋友的年纪最好是：
最好比我大，因为他们会比较成熟：1分
最好比我小，我有一点大男人主义：3分
大小无所谓，只要看得顺眼就行了：5分
测试结果：
10—20分：你的原因出自于“害羞”
你平常跟女性朋友的互动较少，尤其是在心仪的对象面前，常害怕过度表现造成犯错，反而让对方对你印象不好。和女生说话时，你也常常头脑一片空白，不知道自己究竟在干什么，虽然事后讨厌这样的自己，也做了相当程度的反省，可是相同的事情却只是一再发生。
建议：对方是如何吸引你的呢？是他的某些特点。你又要如何吸引对方？也必须展现你的优点给对方知道才行。不要害怕犯错，因为即使没犯错你还是追不到。
21—30分：你的原因出自于“衿持”
你不是没机会，你的条件也不错，只是你也喜欢学女生那套“孤芳自赏，待价而沽”，希望对方能主动跟你告白。女生通常喜欢跟心仪的人“暗示”，如果对方不理就赶快找寻下一个对象。所以你的过份衿持除了让机会一再从身边错过之外，就是让你在暗夜中独自叹息。
建议：衿持是女人的专利，也别奢望台湾的女生能有多主动。你喜欢被人追，应该更能体会女人偏爱那种被人捧在手心的感觉。反其道而行，恋情也许马上到来。
31—40分：你的原因出自于“肤浅”
你习惯在女性朋友面前作秀，证明自己的能耐。可是有时却常常秀过了头，结果非但未能为你加分，反而让人感觉你过于肤浅。偏偏对方一句言不由衷的“好棒喔”“好厉害喔”却又常常使你会错意，使得你无论在怎样表白，也只是将失恋的个人记录推像人生的高峰而已。
建议：表现自己是正确且正面的，也是让异性注意你的一种方式。可是那表现必须是你擅长的，也是你优点的部分。想要拥有才华洋溢，也得先做做功课才可以。
41—50分：你的原因出自于“固执”
你很固执，对爱情过于坚持己见，习惯以男生的立场为出发点去谈感情，忘了认真去了解女孩子的立场及心理感受。虽然你总觉得为他付出很多，很爱他也对他好，可是对方却不见得就要领情。固执的人很难去想像到别人眼中的自己，也要小心因为情感而成为社会事件的主角。
建议：不要去定义爱情。爱情有时是不需要讲道理的，他是情感的组合体。学会作个倾听者，也让双方共同经营取代单方努力，爱该是舒坦毫无任何强迫的成分。
Saturday, February 23, 2008
排除压力的方法 - 发泄
事出必有。压力是“发泄”的源头，当我受到别人所给于的不平等压力时，怒气就会马上升上头！因此，“发泄”就成为必然的事情咯！
我爱发泄，发泄是排除压力的最好方法，我发泄的方法很简单，只要是在受到压力时，我的生理反应就是很直接的把不满放在面上。不过我会等事情过后，当我独自做事时，我会在房间里开一些比较强劲的音乐，声量调到85%，就这样让音乐填满我整个空虚的空间，直到我能把压力的注意力转移为止，就这样压力自然就会排除了。
这就是我其中之一排除压力的发泄方法！不暴力也很简单，过程也不需太长的时间。
在这里也提供一些比较专业的发泄方法:-
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疏泄法是摆脱烦恼的妙方
古人曾说：“不如人意常八九，如人之意一二分。”一般来说，人的一生中处于逆境的时间是大大多于顺境的时间。即使是历史上的帝王将相，生活中的富豪、名人 等，各人都有各自的烦恼和忧伤。中医学认为，“百病皆生于气”，如果不良情绪是暂时的，机体很快就可恢复正常。但是，如果不良情绪过分强烈或持续的时间太 长，就可能造成脏腑功能失绸，引起疾病，如溃疡病、高血压、神经官能症及一些精神病的发生，常以不良情绪为诱因。现代研究证实，持久的不良情绪，特别是表 现为烦恼、忧郁悲伤的消极情绪，还可通过神经、内分泌系统影响机体的免疫功能，使人体对细菌、病毒及肿瘤细胞的抵抗力下降。正如一位英国哲学家说过的： “生命的潮汐因快乐而升，因痛苦而降。”
如何排解不良情绪？疏泄法能使人从苦恼、郁结的悄极心理中得以解脱，尽快地恢复心理平衡。下面介绍一些心理疏泄的主要方式。
一、发泄的方式
中医学认为，“郁则发之”排解不良情绪最简单的方法就是使之“发泄”例如一个人悲肩欲绝或委屈万分时，痛痛快快地大哭一场，让眼泪尽情地流出来，就觉得舒 服些，切忌把不良情绪埋在心底。现代研究发现，因感情变化流出的眼泪中含有两种神经传导物质，这两种传导物质随眼泪排出体外后，可缓和悲伤者的紧张情绪， 减轻痛苦和消除忧虑。所以痛哭一，场比眼泪往壮子里咽要好得多。哭是痛苦的外在表现，也是一种心理保护措施，强忍眼泪等于慢性自杀。哭做为一种发泄方式， 虽然不“雅”，但却有它的积极作用。有些人的方法是摔打家具、打人骂人等，这种攻击件的发泄方式一害别人，二害自己，是不可取的。
二、宣泄的方式
情绪压抑，有时不宜一下子发泄出来，可采取宣散疏导，逐渐发泄的形式。一个人遇到不顺心的事，受到挫折，甚至遭到不幸，比如在恋爱中遭到挫折、亲朋好友去 世、生活中发生重大的事故、工作学习上或家中有不愉快的事等，怒从心头起，或心中泛起阵阵愁云时，首先可冷静下来，控制一下自己的感情，然后找自己诚恳、 乐观的知心朋友、亲人倾诉自己的苦衷，或向亲人、朋友写书信诉说苦闷、烦恼。俗话说：“旁观者清”，从亲友的开导、劝告、同情和安慰中得到力量和支持，消 极的苦闷、忧愁和烦恼之情会随之消散。所以，广交知心朋友，扩大社会交往，建立良好的人际关系，是医治心理不良情绪的良药。另外，在情绪不佳时，可写诗作 赋，撰写文章、抒发自己的情感，也是疏泄不良情绪的有效方法。
三、升华的方式
排除不良情绪最根本的办法是建立良好而稳定的心理状态，用顽强的意志战胜不良情绪的干扰，保持良好的心境。在生活中遇到烦恼，自解自劝，用理智战胜生活中 的不幸。任何理智和情感都可以化为行为的动力，无论是愉快满意的情感，还是悲痛不快的情感，都能激励人去工作和学习。人们常说的“化悲痛为力量”就是这种 表现。《黄帝内经·灵枢》说：“意志者，所以御精神，收魂魄，适寒温，和喜怒者也。”就是说，有理智，意志坚定者，可统帅精神，调和情志，抗邪防病。《黄 帝内经·素问》也说：“勇者气行则已，怯者则着而为病也”。意志坚强者可避免不良刺激，增强抗病能力；意志脆弱者，多神怯气虚，易遭受刺激而发病，事实证 明，胸有大志，毅力坚强的人，能够有意识控制和调节自己的情绪，保持良好的精神状态。科学家彭加本患恶性肿瘤，但他信心百倍和医生密切配合，与疾病作顽强 斗争，又活了25年，直至1982年在新疆一次外出考察中失踪。但有些患者，一听到癌症诊断，当场就被吓死了。这说明意志的锻炼是保持健康心理的重要一 环。
四、转移的方式
各种情绪的产生部离不开环境。避免接触强烈的环境刺激，有时是必要的，但最好是学会情绪的积极转移，即通过自我疏导，主观上改变刺激的意义，从而变不良情 绪为积极情绪。例如，一旦遇到烦恼、郁闷不结时，如果你爱好文艺，不妨去听听音乐，跳跳舞；如果怀喜欢体育运动，可以打打球、游一游泳等，借以松弛一下绷 紧的神经；或者观赏一场幽默的相声、哑剧、滑稽电影；如果你天生好静，那也可以读一读内容轻松愉快、饶有风趣的小说和刊物。总之，根据自己的兴趣和爱好， 分别采取自己喜爱的活动。这种自娱自乐的活动可以舒体宽怀，消忧排愁，怡养心神，有益于人之身心健康。
五、超脱的方式
当你心情不诀、痛苦不解时，你可以漫步在绿树成荫的林荫大道上或视野开阔的海滨边，如果有条件，还可以作短期旅游，把自己置身于绚丽多彩的自然美景之中， 陶醉在蓝天白云、碧波荡漾、花香鸟语的自然怀抱里，山青水秀的自然环境会使你产生豁达明民的心境，一切忧愁和烦恼之情会随之消散。大自然可使你舒畅气机， 忘却忧烦，寄托情怀，美化心灵。
大家都知道吸烟、酗酒，饮食不当有害于健康，实际上，情绪不良对人体健康影响更大。据有关学者统计，健康和长寿有20％来源于遗传因素， 25％来自周围环境的影响，5％来自医疗条件，其余的50％完全掌握在自己手中，也就是自己的精神状态和选择的生活方式及生活习惯。若能用积极的行为方式自我调节，摆脱不良心境的影响，就可使你的生活幸福。
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欢迎读家们看完后给于你们的意见。分享一点你们的生活点滴让我知道吧！感谢!
什麼是愛
爱是没有对或错
只有爱与不爱
但
有多少人能够明白这道理
不让自己受失恋之苦
而能够以最短的时间内走出来呢？
朋友
相信我
时间是疗伤的最佳方法
当你被甩后
不叫“失恋”
因你还恋着对方
失恋的是对方
因他已不再爱了
不要为一个
已不再爱我们的人而伤心留泪
他永远不会明白
爱着一个已不爱自己的人
是什么感受
换句话说：
他永远不会因你伤心而再恋上你
收到2008的第一個紅炸彈
今天收到朋友的電訊說‘我要請你喝酒’。 當時我以為是出來聚聚﹐我竟然一口答應‘好啊﹐幾時呢﹖’‘三月十六日’我開始覺得不妙﹐趕快追問原來是紅炸彈﹗我真還以為她是和我開玩笑﹐因為從沒聽過她在來往。
我在此祝福她幸福﹐婚姻美滿。
我在此祝福她幸福﹐婚姻美滿。
元宵抛柑
元宵节，是古代妇女最感兴趣的节日之一，平常女子特别是大家闺秀或小家碧玉，都是“三步不出闺门”，只有到了元宵节，才可出来夜游观灯，甚至和男友幽会谈情。所以元宵在民间是象征着爱情的节日，也称为“中国情人节”。
元宵夜，女拋柑橘、男掷香蕉，有些女生还在柑橘上写联络号码，以期觅得一段好姻缘。
在中国民间，也有一些未婚女性在元宵夜偷摘葱或菜，以期嫁到好丈夫的传统习俗。
这个古代习俗传到大马后，改成“拋柑接蕉”，起初是由祖籍福建的大马未婚女子开始“拋好柑，嫁好尪(音骯，意丈夫)”。如今，它演变成一个青年男女的新年节日，大家热热闹闹地在元宵夜向大海、湖泊或池塘拋果，女拋柑橘、男掷香蕉，还在水果写上联络号码，以期觅得一段好姻缘。
元宵节也是马来西亚华裔重大的传统节日之一，这一夜，华裔单身男女纷纷“出笼”，男的拋香蕉，女的拋柑祈求姻缘。
元宵夜，女拋柑橘、男掷香蕉，有些女生还在柑橘上写联络号码，以期觅得一段好姻缘。
在中国民间，也有一些未婚女性在元宵夜偷摘葱或菜，以期嫁到好丈夫的传统习俗。
这个古代习俗传到大马后，改成“拋柑接蕉”，起初是由祖籍福建的大马未婚女子开始“拋好柑，嫁好尪(音骯，意丈夫)”。如今，它演变成一个青年男女的新年节日，大家热热闹闹地在元宵夜向大海、湖泊或池塘拋果，女拋柑橘、男掷香蕉，还在水果写上联络号码，以期觅得一段好姻缘。
元宵节也是马来西亚华裔重大的传统节日之一，这一夜，华裔单身男女纷纷“出笼”，男的拋香蕉，女的拋柑祈求姻缘。
Saturday, February 16, 2008
《我不配》I'm Not Worthy
好 喜 欢周 杰 伦 的 《我不配》。
周董表示，《我不配》所要表现的故事，拥有美丽的女友的男生
频频遭遇狗仔队的“追杀”，在餐厅享受浪漫
却中途不得已要拉着女朋友四处躲藏
无法给女友美好的时光，最终只能选择分离。
不过，他打算把歌名改为《距离》，用以表达“两个人虽然很近
但是心理距离却很远”的感觉。他认为，男女之间的生活有很多不同
好比他现在的情感状况，在某个阶段肯定不适合谈情说爱
“事业和爱情只能选一，现在恋爱，我不配。”
《我不配》是周杰伦2007最新专辑《我很忙》中的第七首歌
作词：方文山
作曲：周杰伦
编曲：林迈可
歌词如下：
这街上太拥挤
太多人有秘密
玻璃上有雾气在被隐藏起过去
你脸上的情绪
在还原那场雨
这巷弄太过弯曲走不回故事里
这日子不再绿
又斑驳了几句
剩下搬空回忆的我在大房子里
电影院的座椅
隔遥远的距离
感情没有对手戏你跟自己下棋
还来不及仔仔细细写下你的关于
描述我如何爱你
你却微笑的离我而去
这感觉 已经不对
我努力在挽回
一些些应该体贴的感觉我没给
你嘟嘴许的愿望很卑微在妥协
是我忽略 你不过要人陪
这感觉已经不对
我最后才了解
一页页不忍翻阅的情节你好累
你默背为我掉过几次泪多憔悴
而我心碎你受罪你的美我不配
周董表示，《我不配》所要表现的故事，拥有美丽的女友的男生
频频遭遇狗仔队的“追杀”，在餐厅享受浪漫
却中途不得已要拉着女朋友四处躲藏
无法给女友美好的时光，最终只能选择分离。
不过，他打算把歌名改为《距离》，用以表达“两个人虽然很近
但是心理距离却很远”的感觉。他认为，男女之间的生活有很多不同
好比他现在的情感状况，在某个阶段肯定不适合谈情说爱
“事业和爱情只能选一，现在恋爱，我不配。”
《我不配》是周杰伦2007最新专辑《我很忙》中的第七首歌
作词：方文山
作曲：周杰伦
编曲：林迈可
歌词如下：
这街上太拥挤
太多人有秘密
玻璃上有雾气在被隐藏起过去
你脸上的情绪
在还原那场雨
这巷弄太过弯曲走不回故事里
这日子不再绿
又斑驳了几句
剩下搬空回忆的我在大房子里
电影院的座椅
隔遥远的距离
感情没有对手戏你跟自己下棋
还来不及仔仔细细写下你的关于
描述我如何爱你
你却微笑的离我而去
这感觉 已经不对
我努力在挽回
一些些应该体贴的感觉我没给
你嘟嘴许的愿望很卑微在妥协
是我忽略 你不过要人陪
这感觉已经不对
我最后才了解
一页页不忍翻阅的情节你好累
你默背为我掉过几次泪多憔悴
而我心碎你受罪你的美我不配
Wednesday, February 13, 2008
Bukit Tinggi trip....
I have been looking forward to Bukit Tinggi for so long long time.... finally i make it this year, year of 2008 - year of rat... i am very happy. thank you to my brother for bringing me to there. I enjoy the trip very much. i took a lot of photos during the trip, here some photos for sharing
Wednesday, February 6, 2008
HaPPY couple.....
As a sister.... i wishing my brother and sister'in law happy, happy and happy....see they are happily packing ang pow... so merry right.
Chinese New Year Reunion Dinner
This year reunion dinner is rather special as we decided not to have any vege dish instead we have all meat.... its yummy... because all are prepare and cook by my dearest mom.
Tuesday, January 29, 2008
Count down on CNY
9 more days to go... The year of roar come to an end and to welcome the year of rat.
This year, is rather a more relaxing celebration on the CNY as my family and i have finish cleaning up the house. Now only left to make some cookies for the CNY. Each year, my mother and i will spent some quality time together to make cookies. I love it.
Mom I love you. Do you know that? You are the BEST mummy i ever have! huh... sound like dedication to mom on Mother's Day. Ha ha don't be confuse, just that it suddenly come accross my mind.
To others... please love your parents... without them, you are NoBODY in this earth!!! tell them how much you love them when you can and i can assure NO REGRET on doing so.
:)
Human.....
I always feel that HUMAN are the most difficult person in the world to be understand.
You will never know what he or she is thinking. Sometime they are seriously doing work but sometimes they aren't. Sometimes they show their kindness, helping hand but sometime they are so cool and walk away without any words.
Oh god... Human....
You will never know what he or she is thinking. Sometime they are seriously doing work but sometimes they aren't. Sometimes they show their kindness, helping hand but sometime they are so cool and walk away without any words.
Oh god... Human....
Sunday, January 27, 2008
My Younger Brother's Wedding
Finally.... my little brother's wedding on 26th January 2008 has come to an end. I great him and my sister-in-law happily married.
Tuesday, January 15, 2008
My Name......
Recently i received emails, from this newly known friend that i know. He address my name 'Siew Kuen' instead Joyce. He told me how nice, sweet and a good name is.
I have been so long not using Siew Kuen ever since i start my college till my worklife, people are so use to call me Joyce, Joycee, Joy Joy.
Then, when this friend call me Siew Kuen, he reminds me my school time. how happy when friends are getting along laugh out loud, jokes around, singing songs non-stop. :)
Thank you friend... i am glad that you have lighten up my life once again.
I have been so long not using Siew Kuen ever since i start my college till my worklife, people are so use to call me Joyce, Joycee, Joy Joy.
Then, when this friend call me Siew Kuen, he reminds me my school time. how happy when friends are getting along laugh out loud, jokes around, singing songs non-stop. :)
Thank you friend... i am glad that you have lighten up my life once again.
Life is really unpredictable! do you agree? you would never know what will be happening tomorrow, the following day...
sometime you might even wonder we plan our work to do this and that today, so we can do the other the next day... and yet things rather not work as we had plan. this also apply to relationship, you might think that oh i meet him, and he might be the MAN. who knows when two come together, things might not as easy as people think.
Therefore, there is no point to being upset, dissapointed for things not turning up the way you want it to be. We however, should determine why it didnt works? how it should make it works? How not to make the same mistakes again in future?
Continuing thinking of the PAST, and make yourself not happy is not helping at all! How the future holds it do depends on how you think and work it out.
do not take life for granted, this is our life.. so wake up and enjoy it, live it the best and better tomorrow.
sometime you might even wonder we plan our work to do this and that today, so we can do the other the next day... and yet things rather not work as we had plan. this also apply to relationship, you might think that oh i meet him, and he might be the MAN. who knows when two come together, things might not as easy as people think.
Therefore, there is no point to being upset, dissapointed for things not turning up the way you want it to be. We however, should determine why it didnt works? how it should make it works? How not to make the same mistakes again in future?
Continuing thinking of the PAST, and make yourself not happy is not helping at all! How the future holds it do depends on how you think and work it out.
do not take life for granted, this is our life.. so wake up and enjoy it, live it the best and better tomorrow.
Friday, January 11, 2008
Correct or Wrong.......
Recently i am very confuse whether what i am doing is correct or wrong? Sometime i am wondering why i love to think so much. For eg: what if i do this and that? what will happen next? is it right to do?
Thursday, January 10, 2008
背叛 = Betray
别人说：男人和女人之间有三种背叛，第一种是身体背叛了、但是心没有背叛，第二种是心背叛了、但是身体没有背叛，第三种是身和心都背叛了，那么他和她是属于那种背叛。
Lately, i heard this song 'Why do I love you' sing by Westlife. I wonder why the girl hurt or betray her boyfriend when she isn't love him and yet want to be with him (vice versa). This should not be happen when comes to relationship.
I believe that to make relationships stronger, the following qualities must be there:
1.) Honestly
2.) Truth
3.) Mutual Understanding
4.) Sacrifice
5.) Deep Respect
6.) Keep smiling in difficult time
What are other qualities do you think?
Attach herewith the lyrics, hope you like it.....
Why Do I Love You
Artist(Band):Westlife
Suddenly she's
Leaving
Suddenly the
Promise of love has gone
Suddenly
Breathing seems so hard to do
Carefully you
Planned it
I got to know just
A minute to late, oh girl
now I understand it
All the times we
Made love together
Baby you were thinking of him
Why do I love you
Don't even want to
Why do I love you like I do
Like I always do
You should've told me
Why did you have to be untrue (love you like I do)
Why do I love you like I do
Ain't gonna show no
Weakness
I'm gonna smile
And tell the whole world I'm fine
I'm gonna keep my senses
But deep down
When no one can hear me
Baby I'll be crying for you
Why do I love you
Don't even want to
Why do I love you like I do
Like I always do
You should've told me
Why did you have to be untrue (love you like I do)
Why do I love you like I do
Can't go back
Can't erase
Baby your smiling face oh no
I can think of nothing else but you
Suddenly
Why do I love you
Don't even want to
Why do I love you like I do
Like I always do
You should've told me
Why did you have to be untrue (love you like I do)
Why do I love you
Don't even want to
Why do I love you like I do
Like I always do
You should've told me
Why did you have to be untrue (love you like I do)
Why do I love you like I do
(Fade)
Why do I love you
Don't even want to
Why do I love you like I do
Like I always do
You should've told me
Why did you have to be untrue (love you like I do)
Why do I love you like I do
Lately, i heard this song 'Why do I love you' sing by Westlife. I wonder why the girl hurt or betray her boyfriend when she isn't love him and yet want to be with him (vice versa). This should not be happen when comes to relationship.
I believe that to make relationships stronger, the following qualities must be there:
1.) Honestly
2.) Truth
3.) Mutual Understanding
4.) Sacrifice
5.) Deep Respect
6.) Keep smiling in difficult time
What are other qualities do you think?
Attach herewith the lyrics, hope you like it.....
Why Do I Love You
Artist(Band):Westlife
Suddenly she's
Leaving
Suddenly the
Promise of love has gone
Suddenly
Breathing seems so hard to do
Carefully you
Planned it
I got to know just
A minute to late, oh girl
now I understand it
All the times we
Made love together
Baby you were thinking of him
Why do I love you
Don't even want to
Why do I love you like I do
Like I always do
You should've told me
Why did you have to be untrue (love you like I do)
Why do I love you like I do
Ain't gonna show no
Weakness
I'm gonna smile
And tell the whole world I'm fine
I'm gonna keep my senses
But deep down
When no one can hear me
Baby I'll be crying for you
Why do I love you
Don't even want to
Why do I love you like I do
Like I always do
You should've told me
Why did you have to be untrue (love you like I do)
Why do I love you like I do
Can't go back
Can't erase
Baby your smiling face oh no
I can think of nothing else but you
Suddenly
Why do I love you
Don't even want to
Why do I love you like I do
Like I always do
You should've told me
Why did you have to be untrue (love you like I do)
Why do I love you
Don't even want to
Why do I love you like I do
Like I always do
You should've told me
Why did you have to be untrue (love you like I do)
Why do I love you like I do
(Fade)
Why do I love you
Don't even want to
Why do I love you like I do
Like I always do
You should've told me
Why did you have to be untrue (love you like I do)
Why do I love you like I do
Wednesday, January 9, 2008
I hate being quiet so much sometimes. It’s not that i’m shy, i don’t think, i just don’t have anything to say. like seriously. when i look around, it seems like everyone makes friends so fast, and everyone is laughing and having a good time so easily, i just don’t understand how they do it. It comes so naturally to them, and it seems like if i confronted or asked them about it they’d just say something like “Speak your mind!” but the thing is i just feel like i don’t even have a mind to speak. Sometimes i feel like a part of my brain is just MISSING, i feel so blank and boring. It’s such a lonely bad feeling and i really don't feel like most people would even understand, even my friend (to whom opinions and talking comes very easily). Is there anyone else out there who feels like this? I hate living like this.
How to forgive and forget?
Human nature is to remember people's wrong doing easier than people right doing.
It is difficult to forgive and forget and not many people can do it.
It also depends on the severity of the doings.
If it is to the extend of causing too much grief and hurt, it might not be easy to forgive, what more forget.
On a personal note, try not to take this into your heart, pour it out, move on with life and if u need to avoid that person/situation.
It is difficult to forgive and forget and not many people can do it.
It also depends on the severity of the doings.
If it is to the extend of causing too much grief and hurt, it might not be easy to forgive, what more forget.
On a personal note, try not to take this into your heart, pour it out, move on with life and if u need to avoid that person/situation.
Sunday, January 6, 2008
What is the difference between joy and happiness, and why is the former is preferable to the latter?
Remember my very first post on my blog 'What a joy!!!'. Then if you are notice, my name is Joyce. How come i come out my first post is with that title? Well actually that was written by my friend. My friend wanted to cheer me up and think of that. It did help me. Thank you fren. I really appreciate that.
Now.... back to my question. I have recently read this article and i find it quite interesting and want to share it here.
Happiness depends on happenings. It comes from the root word hap, which means 'luck' or 'circumstances.' 'I am happy today because things just happened to turn out right.'
Joy is different. it goes deeper. Joy is an attitude, a choice. Joy is an inside job and is not dependent on circumstances. it is your choice to rejoice. You can choose, regardless of the circumstances, to be joyful.
Joy is what make life - well - enjoyable. When we learn to choose joy, we greatly enhance our lives.
Now.... back to my question. I have recently read this article and i find it quite interesting and want to share it here.
Happiness depends on happenings. It comes from the root word hap, which means 'luck' or 'circumstances.' 'I am happy today because things just happened to turn out right.'
Joy is different. it goes deeper. Joy is an attitude, a choice. Joy is an inside job and is not dependent on circumstances. it is your choice to rejoice. You can choose, regardless of the circumstances, to be joyful.
Joy is what make life - well - enjoyable. When we learn to choose joy, we greatly enhance our lives.
Saturday, January 5, 2008
Lately, i have been thinking a lot.
About whether should i go on or should i not? I am very confusing and don't know how to do it? I have been trying to seek advice from my friends but different people come out with different views. You must be wondering what i am refering to.... !!
There are so many things that had been ruin into my life at one time....
First - My work
Second - My relationship
Third - Finances.....
About whether should i go on or should i not? I am very confusing and don't know how to do it? I have been trying to seek advice from my friends but different people come out with different views. You must be wondering what i am refering to.... !!
There are so many things that had been ruin into my life at one time....
First - My work
Second - My relationship
Third - Finances.....
Never ever across my mind on posting something in blog. However, lately get to know one of this friend and when read on my friend's blog. It gives me an action to start doing so (not to say copycat) but instead its a way to express what i am thinking. Human being are very unique and special in this universe. Some might in very good expressing themselves but some are not. I belong to the latter one. That's why i am here. I am welcome your comment. Cheers and Happy Reading!!
如果這是愛
好喜欢被他拥抱的感觉。期待每天早上睡醒的第一件事情是他送上的SMS。
可是，自己还是不确定自己对他的感觉是爱，是感激还是只是朋友而已。这让我好迷惘。好想让他把我生命中的空白全部都填地满满的。可是他却告诉我应该要有自己的天地和私人的空间。而我的私人的空间就是等待﹐開始上网和写日记吧！同时也想满足你，让他拥有足够的私人空间。可是他却不知道，我的感觉。我偶而感觉很累。让自己觉得还是不要去把心交出来比较好。承认自己是懦弱﹐很多方面做不好又胆小的我。可是幸福往往来得冲冲。担心自己把握不住，而害怕幸福迅即消逝的感觉。
如果還有機會﹐好想擁抱在他懷抱里對他說‘我愛你’﹗
可是，自己还是不确定自己对他的感觉是爱，是感激还是只是朋友而已。这让我好迷惘。好想让他把我生命中的空白全部都填地满满的。可是他却告诉我应该要有自己的天地和私人的空间。而我的私人的空间就是等待﹐開始上网和写日记吧！同时也想满足你，让他拥有足够的私人空间。可是他却不知道，我的感觉。我偶而感觉很累。让自己觉得还是不要去把心交出来比较好。承认自己是懦弱﹐很多方面做不好又胆小的我。可是幸福往往来得冲冲。担心自己把握不住，而害怕幸福迅即消逝的感觉。
如果還有機會﹐好想擁抱在他懷抱里對他說‘我愛你’﹗
Love? What Love is.....Love seem like a gamble?
Imagine that you had to pick out a pair of shoes and buy them, and that they were going to be the last pair of shoes that you would ever wear. That these shoes were going to last you for the rest of your life. No matter where you were going to go, no matter the conditions or the weather, or even the occasion, these shoes were it.
All occasion, all terrain, all conditions, and, it would be expected of you to always wear those shoes and that it would be expected of you to keep them cared for and repaired.
Do you agree?
All occasion, all terrain, all conditions, and, it would be expected of you to always wear those shoes and that it would be expected of you to keep them cared for and repaired.
Do you agree?
What a jOy!!!!
Life's definitely short
Life's also a JOY
We must enJOY life itself
To be JOYful everday
Life's also a JOY
We must enJOY life itself
To be JOYful everday
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