Monday, September 21, 2009

A love story.....

He met her on a party. She was so outstanding, many guys chasing after her, while he so normal, nobody paid attention to him. At the end of the party, he invited her to have coffee with him, she was surprised, but due to being polite, she promised.

They sat in a nice coffee shop, he was too nervous to say anything, she felt uncomfortable, she thought, please, let me go home.... suddenly he asked the waiter. 'Would you please give me some salt? I'd like to put it in my coffee.' Everybody stared at him, so strange! His face turned red, but still, he put the salt in his coffee and drank it. She asked him curiously; why you have this hobby? He replied: 'when I was a little boy, I was living near the sea, I like playing in the sea, I could feel the taste of the sea, just like the taste of the salty coffee. Now every time I have the salty coffee, I always think of my childhood, think of my hometown, I miss my hometown so much, I miss my parents who are still living there'. While saying that tears filled his eyes. She was deeply touched.. That's his true feeling, from the bottom of his heart. A man who can tell out his homesickness, he must be a man who loves home, cares about home, has responsibility of home. Then she also started to speak, spoke about her faraway hometown, her childhood, her family. That was a really nice talk, also a beautiful beginning of their story. They continued to date. She found that actually he was a man who meets all her demands; he had tolerance, was kind hearted, warm, careful. He was such a good person but she almost missed him! Thanks to his salty coffee!

Then the story was just like every beautiful love story , the princess married to the prince, then they were living the happy life... And, every time she made coffee for him, she put some salt in the coffee, as she knew that's the way he liked it.

After 40 years, he passed away, left her a letter which said: 'My dearest, please forgive me, forgive my whole life lie. This was the only lie I saidto you---the salty coffee. Remember the first time we dated? I was so nervous at that time, actually I wanted some sugar, but I said salt It was hard for me to change so I just went ahead. I never thought that could be the start of our communication! I tried to tell you the truth many times in my life, but I was too afraid to do that, as I have promised not to lie to you for anything.

Now I'm dying, I afraid of nothing so I tell you the truth: I don't like the salty coffee, what a strange bad taste.. But I have had the salty coffee for my whole life! Since I knew you, I never feel sorry for anything I do for you.. Having you with me is my biggest happiness for my whole life. If I can live for the second time, still want to know you and have you for my whole life,even though I have to drink the salty coffee again'.

Her tears made the letter totally wet.Someday, someone asked her: what's the taste of salty coffee?

It's sweet. She replied.

Love is not to forget but to forgive, not to see but to understand, not to hear but to listen, not to let go but to HOLD ON !!!!

Don't ever leave the one you love for the one you like, because the one you like will leave you for the one they love.

Find one, who calls you beautiful instead of hot.

Who calls you back when you hang up on him.

Who will stay awake just to watch you sleep.

Who wants to show you off to the world when you are in your sweats.

Who holds your hand in front of his friends.

Wait for the one who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares about you and how lucky he is to have you.

Wait for the one who turns to his friends and says, '...that's her.'

好久不动气了,但是开始又动气了,赶紧反省检讨一下,把“莫生气”再温习一遍。继续找别人的好处,认自己的不是,生气犹如战争,双方都有伤亡,战争结束后还有一堆垃圾战场要收拾,满目疮(chuāng)痍,真是愚人才生气。

你为什么生气?


别为小事抓狂
你为什么生气?
塞车、买票插队、同事争执、服务生态度恶劣……
生气之前,思考哪些才是真正值得生气的情况,
例如:虐待儿童、人民遭受饥饿之苦、战争……
相较之下?,就可以知道这些事是多不值得生气。
将怒气转向值得生气的事上,
并且想想自己可以为这些情况做什么。

Sunday, September 20, 2009

Extraordinary date

Dates like 20.01.2001, 20.02.2002, 20.03.2003, 20.04.2004, 20.05.2005, 20.06.2006, 20.07.2007 and 20.08.2008 have been a historical dates. what you have done on that day? Hhmm i am wondering mine! This year on 20.09.2009, after a whole month of fasting, the Muslim community in Malaysia celebrates ‘Hari Raya' with joyous family gatherings and open houses. Join in the merry-making and taste the delicious traditional Malay favourites such as rendang and ketupat.

SELAMAT HARI RAYA TO ALL MY MUSLIM FRIENDS.

吴淡如的拖鞋理論


吳淡如說:「年輕的時候真的因為買錯東西,交過很多學費但是到了現在,我已經能夠認識自己、了解自己知道什麼東西適合自己,所以在下決定的時候就會很清楚、很確定」吳淡如說:我真的覺得,女人尋找適合的男人就像是尋找一雙適合的鞋子在年輕的時候,女人買的往往是最華麗最能墊高自己高度的鞋子或許是高跟鞋、或許是恨天高即使難穿也沒關係因為妳覺得妳自己可以忍耐

但是,如果有一天妳忍耐到拇指外翻、腳起水泡妳才會發現,鞋子最重要的功能其實是要陪妳走路而已而走路是要往前走的,不是要站在原地的婚姻就像找鞋標準一直在變所以,這時候妳就會去找一雙很舒適的會保護妳的腳的、會陪著妳一起向前走的鞋而不是去增加你的高度,因為妳就是這個樣子吳淡如說:「但是這其中也有一個前提就是妳也不能找太醜的鞋因為如果太醜妳就不會喜歡它」婚姻其實就像每個人在找鞋而已發現,從很年輕的時候到現在找鞋的人格一直慢慢地在改變因為你! 已經慢慢接受自己原本的高度不需要靠鞋子來墊高自己了不過,雖然這個道理聽起來很簡單似乎人人都可以領會但是,吳淡如也坦承要充分參悟其中的道理,其實不是那麼容易

吳淡如以自己為例,和男朋友 Simon鄧其實在民國八十二年就認識,原先只是朋友直到最近這一、兩年兩個人才有比較深入的來往那種感覺就像古代的文藝小說中所說的『過盡千帆皆不是』你(妳)會突然發現好女人(男人)還是在你(妳)的身邊他(她)也許不是最漂亮的鞋,而是一雙很舒服、能走長久的鞋~吳淡如說:「我男朋友對我的所有態度永遠是:『我可以為妳做什麼?』我後來才覺得原來這才是人間最稀罕的一種品質後來才發現像這種從台北載妳到高雄都叫做『順路』的人而且他自己有他自己的工作原則、價值觀、人生觀他不會嫉妒妳的成就,也不會嫉妒妳賺的錢願意對妳的一切樂觀其成對任何妳想做的各種實驗,永遠都不加置諱因為那不關他的事,這是妳自己的選擇老實跟你說,這樣的人還真少

吳淡如的那句話:『過盡千帆皆不是』你(妳)會突然發現好女人(男人)還是在你(妳)的身邊他(她)也許不是最漂亮的鞋,而是一雙很舒服、能走長久的鞋~祝福大家都能找到一雙適合自己 . 很舒服 .能走長久的鞋 .若是鞋子已經穿在腳上.可能不太舒服 .也不太好走 ...不妨多忍讓一下 ? 協調一下 .試著走一段時間經過磨合. 調整.... 穿起來自然會舒服些..如果... 不能舒服些 ...嘿嘿 ....要踢掉 .要換鞋 . 要光腳 ...由你決定囉!

Wednesday, September 9, 2009

“09.09.09”好日子



今年,2009年9月9日又成了有情人看中的好日子,为与天下有情人在2009年 9月9日这世纪一遇的日子共度最浪漫时刻。

09. 09. 09=天长地久?吉利寓意的日子, 对于新人来说值得纪念. “2009年9月9日”,这个寓意“爱你久久久”的日子再次掀起了结婚登记的高潮。今年双春兼闰月,很多人谓为“结婚年”,9月9日很多新人眼中,寓意“三九合一、天长地久”,是百年难遇的良辰吉日。

当然这么吉利的日子,可少不了这一对情人,Chin Ling & Wai Ling 的结合哦!身为妹妹的我衷心祝福这对情人“恩恩爱爱,甜甜蜜蜜,天长地久”。

Saturday, August 8, 2009

To avoid ghost in hotel - 10 ways.

1. Knock on door or press door bell before entering, meaning to ask for permission to stay there. 2. When entering ho tel room for 1st time, enter sideways so as to allow the 'dirty thing' to leave the room.
3. Leave a pair of slippers (each facing opposite directions) at door entrance.. 'Dirty thing' coming in will follow the slipper and go out.
4. Place a glass of water and a pinch of salt at head of bed.
5. Flush toilet bowl before using.
6. Do not close the bible if it has been left open.
7. Avoid wearing black & red clothings. Wear yellow clothings.
8. Before sleeping, close toilet door & also switch off toilet lights.
9. Don't sleep facing big mirror.
10. Before sleeping, do not leave slippers together but each facing opposite direction to each other or in a messy way.