Finding the Right One

In a choice of a partner leading to a lifetime commitment, its good to start planning out how to find the right one.

It is important to list down your priorities in a partner you are looking for, be it physical, character and emotion. The importance of this can be likened unto going out to buy a television set without knowing what you really want. There are several models out there and they all are going to look nice. If you don’t know what you want, chances are you are going to end up with the wrong one. If you plan before hand, such as if you want it with an LCD screen, certain budget, size of the screen, resolution etc it will be easy for you to find what you want and get the best deal.

List down everything you are looking for in a partner and then read it to yourself, you will know what you really want then. So when you are out meeting potential partners, you will find it easier to eliminate the ones who are not in your preference list. For example, if you like children and your potential partner can’t stand children, he or she is obviously not a good choice. Be willing to adjust your list if you learn that it can be shown grace such as not eliminating a potential partner if he or she does not meet minor criteria.

I know a friend who said she would not list down the criteria because God knows what she wants and will find the right partner for her. She is 32, very attractive and had been in and out of a few wrong relationships. So what went wrong? I believe God knows what she wants, but I don’t think she does.

Like produces like, that means everything produces after itself. A durian tree cannot produce mangosteen fruit. If you want a skinny, attractive, and intelligent partner etc, make sure you spruce yourself up to be attractive enough for your potential mate.